have something honest and sensible to say and if you have any idea what im talking about. Right Im a teacher , and a counsellor I will be taking on intense training to become an aged care nurse as i will give up teaching now. anyway my question is how come everything in my life right now is perfect going exactly in all the right directions I am happy on top of the world . just got engaged and bought a house.. but why is it that sometimes I can not in my times of confusion I can not answer my own questions. and i start to feel down myself,,,,,,,,,, i know i can ask collegues for proffessional advice but im sort of looking for thoughts from people who are not trained to give out advice coz im one of them... get my idea.... errrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!
Answer:
First of all you are right not going to your colleagues as it can be very hard for a professional to go to another professional and admit they are human and need help. We all try to show our colleagues, in whatever line of work we are in, that we are as good, if not better, than they are. But from the sound of your posting, you are going in the direction you are aiming for. It is natural to self doubt now and again, but unless any of the points you mentioned above are making you unhappy, then it it is just fear (again, normal and human). Try to stay positive and don't forget any decision CAN be reversed.
I hope this helps
perhaps you have too much on your mind all at once and this is why you get confused
I've heard of people who fear success. Or... It sounds dumb, but my family has gone through a lot. And it seems like when everything is oing fine, we get bored. Like, we crave some archnemesis to fight or something, a neighboor, a "friend", etc.
Did you have to give anything up for all that you have?
Just as there are many times in life when things don't go your way, there are also times when things do go your way. Don't freak out. Just make sure that you don't get on to much of a high. You have to remember that life is not always beautiful. For now, life is awesome, but things just might fall again. Be prepared, but also enjoy the wonderful time you're having now.
Stress isn't always from negative things. It sounds like wonderful things are happening. That kind of change can be stressful too. Give yourself a few months and see if the roller-coaster stops.
No body can answer all the questions. No body will be able to answer all of their own questions. Sometimes it just feels uncomfortable when everything is going right. Where is the drama or the desire to do better when it seems like everything is going so well?
You shouldn't just quit paying attention to everything that is going on because everything is going great, but I would suggest you don't try to think much about it. Things are going great, don't try to worry.
how about: a mind block induced from the chaos. as a teacher/counselor, u know the answers to the questions u ask ur students. mayb ur soliciting answers from laymen to jar the answer from ur mind,like a student aswering a question. this brings u back to a familiar situation, and hence,easier to retrieve the answer from ur mind. good luck in ur new career!
All of us have a life to live. Sooner or later life will come to an end. We can not avoid that which is unavoidable. Thanks to Almighty God and Creator of the Universe, He loves us and has prepared an eternal Heaven as our home when end of life arrives. God can make our life worth-living now, with peace and joy and hope, and glorious future in Heaven. Do not miss Heaven for anything in this world.
View http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on page 2 (check out the whole site: it will also be worth reviewing in several weeks time when almost completed), and closely examine the mental-health-abc website. Also http://www.neurology.com may come in handy later, and the WebFerret search engine, Ask.com %26 the Wikipedia %26 Google websites. I would employ one of the relaxation methods, take 4 fish oil supplements, exercise daily, and have a look at www.mercola.com
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