it happens all the time!
Answer:
What's to worry about?
It's all good.
Smile and enjoy yourself.
Worrying is a waste of time.
What's gonna happen will happen.
Need more details, i dont fully understand your question about girls
play video games instead that happends all the time too and play sports and go fishing and hang out with the boys
First worry is not a good word. To be concerned is a good word. Please understand it is good to be concerned for girls but but mental health professionals know we should not obsess about anyone.
This can ruin your mental health and your physical body which both affects the way you think.
Try finding another outlet like music, friends or nature. Take a walk and enjoy nature. Read happy books or books with good endings. Count your blessings.
Thinking positive is the best answer. Stay away from negative people which is the only way to have a good, positive and healthy outlook on life.
Good luck to you.
You actually have several options.
First- change the way you look at girls. Yes, they are nice, but think of every single one of them as you would a sister. Treat them with respect, and don't undress them with your eyes.
If you're having problems with them gossiping to you with their problems, don't further their points. Don't agree with them about saying things that are negative- say something that defuses the situation like "I'm sorry that bothers you. Maybe we can talk about something more cheerful?" Nod and smile. Let them get whatever they wish to say out, then keep the conversation light and airy. Change the subject if you know it is wrong.
Take up some sort of hobby that takes up most of the free time you have. It sounds like a horrible thing, but if you have a sport or something physical to release your energy on, you won't have time, or the strength to deal with female company or furthering relationships outside of your hobby.
Take up something healthy-- don't claim video games or binge eating as a hobby! Make it something fun that you really wish to persue (like video game DESIGN or gourmet cooking).
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